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The Narcissist in Your Life Podcast is hosted by Linda Martinez-Lewi, Ph.D., clinical expert on the narcissistic personality, psychotherapist and author. I offer in-depth analysis, strategies and practices for those psychologically and emotionally harmed and abused by toxic, predatory narcissistic personalities through my books: Recovering and Healing After the Narcissist and Freeing Yourself from the Narcissist in Your Life, international telephone consultations and global podcasts. I put the emphasis on helping individuals to access the calming, restorative parts of the parasympathetic body/mind systems that lead to healing, recovery, personal transformation and the evolution of your true, authentic self and your unique creative gifts.

Jul 17, 2020

High level narcissists are so taken with themselves, believing they are superior human beings. 

They are unable and unwilling to acknowledge that someone who is ot in their social class has intrinsic value as an individual. 

High level narcissist, lost in permanent delusion, a lotus eater, a consummate pleasure seeker. 

The high level narcissist does not go deeply inside himself to seek a higher consciousness or offer comfort, solace or kindness to others. 

High level narcissist can be extremely cruel and demeaning to those who are not in their social class, their golden circle. 

The high level looks you over and finds you wanting, especially if you are lower class. Your clothing looks cheap. Maybe you only have one change of clothes. Your shoes are inexpensive even second hand. Your hair is clean but not cut expertly or shining with highlights and shimmering curliques. 

You are intelligent, well spoken, a voracious reader, deep thinker and thoughtful. None of this matters to the high level since you don't make the grade in your physical appearance, nor did you attend the right prestigious schools, or grow up in high society neighborhoods.

It is outrageous to think that an individual like this gets away with being so deluded and horribly cruel and incredibly ignorant. 

The dismissive cold look directed at you by one of these despicable people is meant to cause you deep shame. 

Well, you don't respond to these regressed, inappropriate, cruel behaviors. 

You have a very clear sense of who you are, an authentic person of value, integrity, creative gifts who is evolving psychologically, creatively and spiritually. 

Be proud of yourself for your tremendous qualities of discernment, a deep knowing about what is truly real and valuable.

You find those who, like you are on the road less traveled, a fine pathway that leads to your transformation and evolution as an individual.  Great Work!