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The Narcissist in Your Life Podcast is hosted by Linda Martinez-Lewi, Ph.D., clinical expert on the narcissistic personality, psychotherapist and author. I offer in-depth analysis, strategies and practices for those psychologically and emotionally harmed and abused by toxic, predatory narcissistic personalities through my books: Recovering and Healing After the Narcissist and Freeing Yourself from the Narcissist in Your Life, international telephone consultations and global podcasts. I put the emphasis on helping individuals to access the calming, restorative parts of the parasympathetic body/mind systems that lead to healing, recovery, personal transformation and the evolution of your true, authentic self and your unique creative gifts.

Jan 26, 2021

You have known for a long time, many Summers and Springs that your partner and spouse was lying to you by commission and omission. 

You didn't want to believe your perceptions and instincts. When the message of untruth came across clearly, you retreated from your clarity and returned to our your belief in the leis of the high level narcissist. You have been under the spell of the high level for years and decades.

High level narcissists gets a thrill out of lying to you.

You are under his/her control and the narcissist knows thta he can play you anyway he wants. 

The narcissist is obsessed with controlling your thoughts, feelings, plans, creative pursuits. 

Chronic lying is a permanent fixture of the high level narcissist.  Without a developed conscience you move adroitly, forcing your power position on your partner, spouse, ex-spouse, children.

Clever, cunning, predatory high level narcissists layer lie upon lie and experience giddy pleasure through their countless deceits. 

As the high level narcissist lies, he oozes charm that is coupled with artfully designed promises that warm your heart and reinforce your attachment to them. 

You hold on to this false belief to reinforce the attachment to the high level narcissist and as a result postpone your rights to inner peace, respect for your personal boundaries and transformation and the rediscovery of your limitless creative gifts. 

After numerous intuitive messages and inspirations and your research you awaken to the true reality of the high level narcissist of the  deceits and traumas you have endured and sustained. The voice of your real self says: "No More!" 

You hear yourself say: I am moving in my own direction. My compass is due North---the truth, the source, the beauty, the hope, independence, calm, solitude, creativity, individuality unbounded.