Apr 30, 2021
Narcissistic mothers come in innumerable sizes, shapes, proclivities, temperaments, dispositions but they have traits in common with regard to the way they treat their children. Being the child of a narcissistic mother is one of the most difficult , complex and painful human roles,
Focus ont hemselves whether they are overt or covert narcissistic personalities.
These mothers insist on their version of "reality" not yours.
They are highly entitled to get and have whatever they want. If this means that you are their servant that's just fine with them.
Narcissistic mothers rather than have a genuine relationship with their child are highly exploitive, using them to suit her purposes.
Their children are put into roles that burnish the narcissistic mother's perfect public image.
Narcissistic mothers are great actors who convince family members, social and professional circles that they are highly devoted and dedicated and loving toward their children. They are method actors in this way and fool almost everyone.
Narcissistic mothers are masters of control and rule the household and children like tyrannical potentates.
Narcissistic mothers humiliate their children, weakening them psychologically and causing them to doubt themselves.
Narcissistic mothers are hypocrites---very strict and insistent that their child behaves perfectly but having no standards of civility or empathy in the way that she treats her children.
Narcissistic mothers re incapable of true insight and spend their days in states of psychological denial and manufactured version of their delusional world where they reign as perfect, fine individuals. This is their belief.
You are a separate individual from your narcissistic mother. Learn to appreciate your individuality, creativity gifts, your warmth, intelligence, self initiation, kindness and psychological strength and stamina.