Nov 20, 2019
Narcissists are highly secretive. They create special compartments for their innumerable secrets. There are narcissists who lead a series of impenetrable compartmentalized private lives. Since narcissists don't have a developed conscience it doesn't bother them that they are continually betraying those closest to them, spouses in particular.
Narcissists are often obsessed with acquiring money. Narcissists don't "share". Many of them have hidden cash and bank accounts that are cleverly concealed from their partners. The spouse does not suspect this venal level of duplicity.
The narcissistic spouse cheats and steals from you. Narcissists are highly suspicious even paranoid that they are being taken advantage of by their spouse.
A time comes when you put the puzzle pieces together and awaken and make the decision to divorce the narcissistic spouse.
You have awakened and are now moving through the divorce process. Choose an excellent attorney who understands how to deal successfully with high manipulative individuals.
You move successfully through the divorce and are now free to recover, transform and evolve as an authentic self.
Practice self care each day: sleep and rest you deserve and need, a form of meditation or prayer your way, movement and exercise, spending time in Nature, spontaneous writing which is healing and nourishes your creative flow and imagination.