Apr 3, 2019
When you meet a narcissist you would never guess that they are decimating their families: spouses, children, siblings, in-laws.
Some children learn to keep a distance from their narcissistic family members. Others survive by becoming invisible, spending time away with friends, hiding in their rooms or escaping into books. They avoid the narcissistic parent whenever they can.
Some children are golden, chosen by the narcissistic parent as perfect, brilliant, talented, attractive, magnetic, like little gods. The golden ones become narcissistic pariahs, traumatizing and harming their siblings in excruciating ways.
Some children from these highly dysfunctional, destructive families as adults are genuine, solid, kind, empathic, creative and productive.
I honor and respect you as survivors of narcissistic families.
You are a precious individual. You have achieved a life enhancing goal: separation and individuation from our family of origin despite all odds. You are in charge, you judgment is insightful and firm. You deserve to evolve and thrive with your many creative gifts. Practice self care each day: good sleep, rest, beautiful music, creative projects, exercise your way. Go into the calming parasympathetic nervous system of the body/mind. Keep faith with yourself, appreciate who you are, a singular, authentic original self.
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