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The Narcissist in Your Life Podcast is hosted by Linda Martinez-Lewi, Ph.D., clinical expert on the narcissistic personality, psychotherapist and author. I offer in-depth analysis, strategies and practices for those psychologically and emotionally harmed and abused by toxic, predatory narcissistic personalities through my books: Recovering and Healing After the Narcissist and Freeing Yourself from the Narcissist in Your Life, international telephone consultations and global podcasts. I put the emphasis on helping individuals to access the calming, restorative parts of the parasympathetic body/mind systems that lead to healing, recovery, personal transformation and the evolution of your true, authentic self and your unique creative gifts.

Sep 1, 2022

Born very attractive, even beautiful, bright, extroverted, charming. She is chosen by her narcissistic father and dependent mother to rule the household, upending the lives of the children in the family.

From the beginning she is queen of the household. There is a strong psychological relationship between father and daughter. 

Since early childhood his golden daughter is never corrected and controlled. She is allowed to givein to all of her impulses and whims while the other children are treated strictly and have to tow the line.

She can do no wrong; she walsy gets what she wants and is always right espcially when she is very wrong. 

She is sent to the fines schools while the other children have to take these responsibilities on their ow. 

Althoug she is extremely demanding, narcissistic mother never says no to her. 

As a young adult golden girl has a pattern of seducing men; creating female enemies. She is a betrayer from the beginning, finding it thrilling to seduce and win the boyfriends of some of her best friends. As she grows older she graduaes to having affairs with partners of her friends and acquaintances, just because itis very exciting and she thrives on the the precarious psychological edge. 

The two top forces within this golden daughter that motivates everything are manipulation and control over others to see power and material largesse. 

She climbs higher and higher on the top rungs of the professional and social ladders. leaving many disrupted, exhausted, traumatized individuals behind. This golden girl narcissist never looks back. She thinks of those she has vanquished as weak, timid, incompetent, professionally wanting and socially unskilled. 

In a d word,this womanis calculating, knowing exactly where she needs to go to satify her extraordinary appetites. 

She moves adroitly from one partner to the next, ever climbing, having affairs throughout the journey. 

This golden girl becomes notorious for her sheer nerve and ambition. She has a couple of kids for image purposes only and famr.s them off for othes to raise. When family photos are taken, she is depicted as a loving mother in the perfectly produced images that fool everyone. 

Golden girl narcissist attracts coteries of faithful admirers and sychophants that identify with her professional success and impeccable image. She is envied among many societal movers and shakers.

Will she pay for her psychological sins, the trespasses that have harmed so many as she climbed, stepping over othrs to pursue her limitless ambitions. Don't wait for her to be punished or pulled back from her high perch. 

Take the reins in your capable hands, recognize he true nature of this destructive narcissistic personality. 

Charter your own true North course; practice self care, seek inner peace, sleep, rest, good nourisment, hydration, movement, exercise, beautiful music, activate your unique creativity. 

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