May 4, 2021
Charming, charismatic, gifted at luring you in and bringing you back when you have decided to leave them.
Golden boy high level narcissists seek escape and pleasure to the extreme. When things get tough they run off, escape to their pleasure domes, go on buying sprees, have exciting affairs, spent lots of money on bling--jewelry, fine clothes, fancy trips and exotic treks, endless shopping sprees.
Pathological bragging about what they own, what they purchaed, what they plan to buy, prominent schools they attended, their myriad successes, their grand plans to acquire more material largesse.
Exceedingly vain--Constantly perfecting how they look, clothing they wear, cars they drive, homes they purchase.
Excessive pathological self entitlement. He knows that he can control the lives of others, especially his spouses, children and inner social circle.
When you fully comprehend that the golden boy narcissist cannot be your partner and is incapable of authentic empathy or compassion, being faithful to you, deeply appreciating you as an individual-----you finally see through the magnificent delusion he has created and that you at one time believed was true.
Now you are grounded in our own unique true reality, you are moving forward with perseverance and self assertion---discovering your own direction---coming back to your oriiginal self.
I give you so much credit for this journey you have taken, leaving the high level narcissists and all others of this ilk.