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The Narcissist in Your Life Podcast is hosted by Linda Martinez-Lewi, Ph.D., clinical expert on the narcissistic personality, psychotherapist and author. I offer in-depth analysis, strategies and practices for those psychologically and emotionally harmed and abused by toxic, predatory narcissistic personalities through my books: Recovering and Healing After the Narcissist and Freeing Yourself from the Narcissist in Your Life, international telephone consultations and global podcasts. I put the emphasis on helping individuals to access the calming, restorative parts of the parasympathetic body/mind systems that lead to healing, recovery, personal transformation and the evolution of your true, authentic self and your unique creative gifts.

Mar 25, 2022

A highlevel narcissistic spouse during a divorce is a meancing figure. With all of the pain, the deceit, manipulations and lies that you internalized and sustained during the marriage, when the narcissist is in the divorce phase an acceleration occurs in his/her cold animosity toward you. The high level initiates an all out war against you. He knows that you will go down--he will be the trimphant winner. Winning is the only thieng that the narcissist knows besides his perpetual gods---money, property, social prestige, raw poer over others. High level narcissists never play fair; this is not prt of their psychic structure. Avaricious before the divorce, the enarcissistic spouse doubles down when he knows that the spoils of the marriage must be divided. 

Prepare yourself well with an excellent attorney advocate with a fine character who understands highly controlling individuals, overentitled, who don't play fair. 

Remind yourself that you are not to blame, that you re dealing with a severe, fixed personality disorder that will not change.

Practice self care each day: rest and sleep that you deserve and need, nourishing food, organic if you can, quality water, movement/exercise, beautiful music, Nature's beauty, your form of meditation, great Art, beautiful music. 

Maintain a steady gaze forward---knowing that you are the keeper of the flame of truth.