Apr 2, 2021
There is a common thread that runs through many marriages to narcissists, especially when rumblings of a divorce are in the ait. Before the lightening strikes it is not unusual for the narcisistic spouses to have hidden the financial assets.
Narcissists are chronic liars. You cannot change these characteristics.
Besides the financial matters, the narcissist is psychologically and emotionally eclipsing your days.
When you decide the marriage is no longer working with the narcissist, create your own plan in advance of the separation and divorce. Make sure that you interview two lawyers and more if necessary to find an expert in divorce law. Be sure this person is your excellent advocate and has a fine character.
This is a complex process. I give you so much credit for making this decision and following through.
You now are moving along the pathways of the authentic original self and deserve tremendous credit for taking the initiative and persevering.