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The Narcissist in Your Life Podcast is hosted by Linda Martinez-Lewi, Ph.D., clinical expert on the narcissistic personality, psychotherapist and author. I offer in-depth analysis, strategies and practices for those psychologically and emotionally harmed and abused by toxic, predatory narcissistic personalities through my books: Recovering and Healing After the Narcissist and Freeing Yourself from the Narcissist in Your Life, international telephone consultations and global podcasts. I put the emphasis on helping individuals to access the calming, restorative parts of the parasympathetic body/mind systems that lead to healing, recovery, personal transformation and the evolution of your true, authentic self and your unique creative gifts.

Nov 10, 2019

We are flawed human beings. We make small and big mistakes. If we hurt someone emotionally as a result of our mistakes, it takes humility and insight to say: "I was wrong, I am sorry that I caused you to suffer. It is not your fault; it is mine." 

Narcissists are incapable of admitting they are wrong. 

Narcissists don't...


Nov 7, 2019

Count the ways that your marriage to your narcissistic spouses keeps you in a state of psychological siege: the fight or flight survival mode. You can never let down, relax or feel at ease. 

The narcissistic spouse propagates a series of living hells for you: 

1. You are constantly criticized and humiliated despite...


Nov 3, 2019

Shame is an uncomfortable emotion most of us experience. When we are shamed, we feel like we want to disappear. Shame is an intolerable feeling. We are humiliated and feel very small, even non-existent. Children who have been shame by their parent(s) often carry these feelings into adulthood. Deeply ingrained shame...


Oct 31, 2019

The narcissistic mothers is a special breed. Each narcissistic mother is unique as an individual but their characterlogical traits are commonly identifiable. Outstanding traits include emotional coldness and distance, a complete lack of empathy, extreme sense of entitlement, faulty psychological boundaries which mean...


Oct 27, 2019

Narcissists are chronic liars. They lie by omission and commission. They lie by mixing truth with fiction. 

Lying is a handy tool that the narcissist uses to control others, especially partners and spouses. 

During divorce wars they always hide the financial assets and tell you they have nothing. 

Narcissistic mothers...